An older adult male with dementia is admitted to a nursing home. His wife appears frail, tired, and angry when she first visits her husband. She remarks to the nurse in a sarcastic tone, “Let’s see what you can do with him.” What is the nurse’s most therapeutic response?
ExplanationA. Acknowledgment of the client’s behavior will help lower the spouse’s anxiety, reduce guilt, and encourage discussion of feelings.
B. Lack of understanding by the nurse can be interpreted as uncaring and can incite the spouse to make more angry remarks.
C. This is insensitive; it implies that the spouse did not know how to care for the client.
D. This is insensitive; it suggests inadequate judgment on the spouse’s part.